C21-06 Knowing You, Knowing Me with Nadine Hanchar

Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Nadine Hanchar, on air from February 9th

I wrote this book because I had so much success with my clients and students with the PEP Personality Process that they kept asking me for more information. Since most of it in the early days was just in my head I began to define it and refine it into the system it is today and I am grateful that the feedback I am getting from the readers of the book is that they are getting value from it too. My intent is to assist people in having better relationships and communication.

This book is a guide that delivers an in-depth look at your PEP Personality Process and its benefits for those seeking self-development and improvement in their relationships at home and in the workplace. It is an excellent tool for gaining insight into the processing styles of all the key people in our lives.

Knowing our own style gives us insights concerning our tendencies and those of others. It teaches us, how we filter information, how we communicate with others, how we handle stress, how to feel more secure, how we best understand and learn. All of us have a need to be seen and accepted for who we are, to be heard and understood, to feel connected, and to make sense of the world around us.

Whether we know it or not, everyone has a processing style, and it influences how our environment affects us, how we make decisions, how we interpret things, and how we react to situations.

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Throughout the book, readers learn about the various personality processing styles and their communication skills, behaviour patterns, challenges and talents. Gaining these insights will give readers the tools to build successful relationships with others.

Anyone who is looking for assistance with gaining a greater sense of self-awareness and feelings of empowerment will find that the answers can be found by developing a deeper understanding of who you truly are.

Our differences give a richness, a creativity, that can broaden our horizons. Our diversity illuminates different ways of doing things, allowing for innovations, new insights, and helps us grow and enrich our lives. Accepting ourselves, creates empowerment, freedom is gained when we accept others for who they are, and happiness is a result of acknowledging that we are all worthy of respect.

Understanding the PEP Personality Process© helps us in a variety of vital ways.


  • assists us in knowing how we learn and what is the best way for us to learn;
  • opens our eyes to our natural talents and abilities as well as our challenges and pitfalls;
  • gives us ways to regain peace and move back into balance when we get stressed or go out of balance;
  • shows us how we interface with the environments around us and how that can affect us;
  • helps us get a handle on what is going on when we feel insecure, and what we can do about it.
  • In short, it empowers us, helping us to make sense of our world and those in it.

Free give away:

If people go to my site they can get a copy of my regrouping questions to keep them positively focused in life. I don’t know how to do affiliate links?!

More about what I believe: Creating Better Relationships, Makes a Better World!

When we accept ourselves, we create empowerment. Freedom is gained when we accept others for who they are, and happiness is a result of acknowledging that we are all worthy of respect.

Our differences make us stronger, and our collaborative contributions innovate and build better, stronger organizations; more solid and trusting relationships; and diverse and growing communities that promote a more enlightened world.

In my 30 plus years of working and developing the PEP Personality Process with my family, friends, students, groups, business teams and clients, I have learned a few important things about relationships.

All of us have a need to be accepted for who we are, to be understood, to feel secure, and to make sense of the world around us. We all want to be connected, heard, and seen, and to know we are loved. As we get to know ourselves better, we have better relationships with others, communicate more effectively, appreciate our differences, and better accept one another.

The PEP Personality Process is an excellent tool because it assists us in gaining insight into the personality types of all the key people in our life: our spouse, children, bosses, co-workers, students, friends, and clients or customers. With it, you can discover what others expect from you in terms of communication and behaviour—and what you are expecting of them.

In studying and learning NLP (neurolinguistic programming) and human psychology in conjunction with my spiritual explorations and personal experiences, I discovered that people are rich and layered, and are fascinating. From a very early age, I wanted to know what made people tick. I was always asking questions and observing other people’s behaviours. I began to see patterns, then insights would come to me, and suddenly pieces would click into place.

It truly is my dream to live in a world where people are valued, respected, and accepted for who they are no matter what their culture, religion, country, sexual preference, financial situation, education, or gender. It is my dream to live in a world filled with unity, compassion, and joy. This book is a contribution to that vision. I hope people find it useful and enlightening.

Nadine Hanchar, is the developer of the PEP Personality Process and a Master Trainer of NLP, Bestselling Author, Speaker, Trainer, Counsellor and Consultant. Specializing in relationships, trauma, communication, personal and professional development. Her results-oriented approach allows the person, couple, family or organization to go forward with a better quality of life.

My Company Background:

Counselling: specializing in Relationship issues and Trauma.

Consulting: for businesses, entrepreneurs, management and leadership teams

Best Selling Author: “Knowing Me, Knowing You – The PEP Personality Process” , “A Book to Live By – workbook and journal”, “Sparks of Light – Sacred Hearts Rising”

Speaker: on a wide variety of topics

Trainer: Certification courses in NLP, Hypnosis, Counselling and Coaching

Facilitator of Personal Enrichment Programs personal growth & spirituality classes

My background:

I started my own personal growth journey at age 16 and started leading personal growth workshops at age 19. I then went into business opening a Sporting Goods Store which taught me so many things because as an entrepreneur you do everything. I then went to work for an Independent Newspaper where I quickly ended up managing the advertising department. I also continued my personal and professional studies evenings, weekends and holidays.

I have always been passionate about people, personal growth, and practicality. For over thirty six years, I have studied extensively in Canada and the US to learn about NLP, hypnosis, philosophy, spirituality, communication, nutrition and healing. I consider myself a very holistic person taking the body, mind and spirit into consideration.

I have been in private practice since 1986 and began and taught my Personal Enrichment Programs since then. I am a Certified Counsellor, Consultant, Speaker, Author & Master Trainer of Time Release Therapy™, Hypnotherapy, and Neuro-Linguistic Psychology™. I am the  developer of the PEP Personality Process for which I published a book called ‘Knowing Me, Knowing You – The PEP Personality Process”. I opened the Private Post-Secondary Education Institute in 1994 where I then offered certification courses to others.

  • I work with individuals, couples and organizations
  • I specializes in the PEP Personality Process and how personality styles affect communication, behaviour and life
  • I assist people in discovering more choices
  • I assist people in building better relationships at home and at work

My Why:

I have always been fascinated by people. I moved a lot as a young person and had to learn to fit in and make friends and got to observe many different people in a multitude of settings and situations. People naturally gravitated to me with their issues and I seemed to be able to give people a different perspective which often assisted them and this was before I had done any formal training.  It seemed like a natural fit and it was something I was genuinely interested in.

I believe that “Positive Action Inwardly Produces Love”

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