20-10 The Personal and Professional Conflict of Self

Sara’s View of Life with Sara Troy, on air from March 3rd

Conflict, something we are all way too familiar with, why do we need to be conflicted over our professional and personal selves? there is no need for this for we are one and the same.

If you are living as an authentic person enjoying your meaningful purpose of your work and love to to do it every day, there can be no conflict between your professional and personal self, for you are your work, your passion for what you do is who you are, so the two meld together as a Ying and Yang of self, constantly balancing the needs of both.

The conflict comes when you are not enjoying your work when it requires you not to be yourself when it takes you away from being passionate about what you do. The demands of being someone who is so-called professional but makes you wear a different face that simple is not you, and will eventually catch up to you and you will know you are living a life of expectation and not of your authenticity.

We can be professional and personal in our work, it simply means wearing different hats for different situations, but not losing your head over it. We want people to be themselves in every aspect of life, for in business, people will buy you before they buy anything from you.

Our professionalism is purely in our delivery of the moment while still being true to yourself. We want personal attention in today’s world, and we can give that of our selves in a professional way. People are tired of fake people, fake presentations, we want to know that who we are dealing with is truly real and professional in their realism.

In our self discovery of who we are, why we do what we do, where we are going, how are we getting there, where is there? it is easy to get confused. We are inclined to the boat unshaken just for peace sake, but little by little we die inside.

When in that self discovery, we find our true calling, our true passion, our conviction, our skills, we rock our boats and set sail down that river of exploration and wonderment.

So do not be afraid to explore your self, for that face your wearing that does not fit, it will peal of at some stage to reveal a person who is either so very unhappy or a person of awesomeness that is waiting for permission to be.

GIVE YOUR SELF PERMISSION TO BE YOU AND YOU WILL GO INTO EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE IN AUTHENTICATION.


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So don’t wear different faces or personas, just different hats for different situations so that you do not lose your self along the way, but rather find a balance between your public and personal persona so you can be totally you in either realm.

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